I want to tell you about The Power. I thought The Secret was fantastic but this really takes things to a new level. I'd been hearing people talk about The Power but just hadn't gotten around to buying it. Then a friend asked if I used The Power when I'm coaching. I decided I had to know what was so special about the power. I got the audio version and I'm so pleased I did. I was suprised at how long the recording lasted for. It took me three nights to listen to the full recording. I have been listening most nights now for the past three weeks. It's wonderful, REALLY wonderful.
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Even as someone who has studied the law of attraction and teaches it to others I STILL got so much from listening to The Power. I've made it part of my bedtime routine. I write in my gratitude journal then I listen to the audio. As I'm listening now I will drift off and visualize myself already having the things I want. The audio is full of inspiring ideas to create the things you want.
This is a must for Anyone, Everyone! If you haven't got it yet I strongly urge you to treat yourself.
Jack Canfield said something like "If it ain't fun, don't do it."
He's a smart guy and someone I admire a great deal. This is great advise but when I first heard it I though Sure that's great but who's going to do my housework and pay the bills and do the cooking etc.
The more I began to understand the law of attraction I began to realise that the trick is not to completely stop doing things you don't like. After all some things we do that are not fun are essential. However we can make them fun. There's nearly always a way if you use your imagination.
I still clean my house but I make it as fun as I can. I usually rope in my son or husband and make it a game.
My son and I will often race. This works really well when general picking up needs to be done. We'll both have a number (usually about ten) thingss to pick up and put in the correct place. The first to finish is the winner.
Sometimes I do come across things I have to do that I really don't want to do and I can't imagine any way to make it fun. When this happens I plan something fun for afterwards. This way I am looking forward to the fun thing instead of focusing on the thing i don't want to do.
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You get the intro session which is a getting to know you session plus 1 email coaching session. You'll learn a lot in just this one session and get the chance to experience my unique style of coaching.
All you need to do is get in touch and let me know you want to take up this offer. Make sure you state that it's the free email session you want.
If you're anything like me you'll want to take a look at this book. As a law of attraction coach I know that I have the power to release excess weight. However, for me this is an area I need extra motivation in.
If your aim is to lose weight take a look at this book.
This new book by Marianne Williamson incudes 21 spiritual lessons for surrendering weight forever.
I really do believe that people who are negative have simply got into the habit of being that way.
Did you know that every time you have a negative thought you attract another negative though and another and another ...
Wow, can you see how this works.
I have a system I love called Spot it and Swap it.
I've talked about Spot it and Swap it before on this blog but here's a quick recap. Everytime you catch yourself having a negative though SPOT IT and SWAP IT to a slightly better feeling thought and again and again until your thought is positive.
Lets' make it a habit to be positive.
Every time you have a positive thought you attract another positive thought and another and another...
Positive thoughts and feelings lead to positive vibes. Positive vibes attract positive manifestations.
Simply put. When you're positive you send out a message to the universe that your open and ready to receive more and more positive things into your life.
P.S. Remember I'm happy to answer any questions you have about using the law of attraction in your own life. Send your questions, challenges and success stories to firstname.lastname@example.org
I am a big believer in taking what you want to feel happy. For me this is something that is true in all areas of life. I promote positive parenting and I constantly send out the message to do what feels good for you. Do what feels right for your family.
The same message is true for people learning the law of attraction. Some things you hear will feel good and others will not. Again, take what you like and leave what you don't.
The number one way to block the things you want from manifesting is to do things that don't feel good to you.
I often shorten law of attraction to LOA. However I have another meaning to LOA.
L - Life
O - Of
A - Abundance
I'll let you into a secret now. WE ARE ALL ABLE TO LIVE A LIFE OF ABUNDANCE.
It is not just for the elite of our world. If it was you'd be on the elite list anyway.
I mean really, what do we think happens. We arrive into this world and some higher being say "no, no, that one can't be trusted to have a wonderful life of abundance." It just doesn't work like that. Each and every one of us can have the abundant life we deserve.
So why is it that some people are super wealthy and have all the things they want in life and others struggle through life with the most basic of things?
The answer is simple.
If you are not living a life of abundance you are not allowing yourself to do so.
-Get clear about what you want
-Raise your vibrations
Follow the 3 step law of attraction process to bring abundance into your life.
Wendy Tomlinson is available for one to one coaching. Email for to discuss a plan that suits your needs. email@example.com
It's been a long time in the making but I hope you'll agree it was worth the wait. I have done my best to make the three step law of attraction process as easy to follow and use as possible.
I've included exercises to help you with each step that can be used again and again.
Here are a couple of testimonials:
“The Law of Attraction is very carefully and thoroughly presented to the reader in this well organized, content-filled book by Wendy Tomlinson. The author takes you by the hand and guides you step-by-step through the entire Law of Attraction process, explaining in simple language anyone can understand;
what Law of Attraction is, how it works, how it affects your life and how you can use this powerful Law to create your ideal life.
She provides the reader with numerous tips, tools, exercises, affirmations, examples, resources and lots of positive encouragement as she introduces you to the Law of Attraction and helps you get started on your very own successful Law of Attraction journey. I highly recommend this wonderful book!”
Lynn Ahearn, Director, Global Law of Attraction Training Center
Wendy Tomlinson is Law of Attraction in action. Her book reveals how the law of attraction works and how it can work for you. This book can change your life.
I am absolutely fascinated with subliminal messages. You can't hear them yet you know they are working because the way you act begins to change. The things that happen in your life changes. I play my full subliminal download in the morning, usually as I read through my emails then I play the silent track through the night so that powerful messages are going straight to my subconscious mind even as I sleep.
Here's a great offer for you to get to know what these subliminal messages are all about. Click on the image below for a free download from Real Subliminals.
E-Course Reminder: How to balance business and family E-course with one to one coaching is still available at the back to school offer of 37€. Offer ends 30th October 2010 http://www.loaliving.com/Courses.html
I love discovering new products and resources to help me use the law of attraction and feel fantastic. LOA SHOP is a place to go to find wonderful products which I use personally in my own life, recommend to my clients and use with my family.
I do invite other's to advertise on LOA SHOP. However I do insist on previewing the entire product/resource before it is allowed space.
I will only allow products and resources I believe are going to be of great value to you. Of course not every product I recommend will be of interest to you. To make things easy I've added different catagories down the right hand side.
I'd like to invite you to send in your questions. I will answer your questions about using the law of attraction here on this blog. It's my mission to give you as much information as possible to help you create the lives you want. Let me know what you want to know.
Send your questions to firstname.lastname@example.org and watch out for your answers here.
I have a confession to make. I have spent the weekend getting in the way. So often in life we stop the law of attraction from giving us what we want because we get in the way. So today for myself and for anyone else out there who has problems with getting in the way I am sharing this wonderful ABRAHAM HICKS SONG with you.
ENJOY and GET OUT OF THE WAY
It's True, the law of attraction works ~ Just ask my son (but wait until after his birthday). He announced earlier in the year that he intended to have a puppy of his own. We already have an older dog and at the time I remember clearly thinking NO WAY! That's not going to happen. I just smiled and never really gave it much thought.
Tonight 3 weeks before his birthday we've just organized to go and collect our new puppy in time for JM's birthday. What happened? Obviously his intention was way stronger than either mine or his Dad's.
Funny how the Universe has a way of sorting these things out.
Have fun and trust that the Universe has got it all sorted.
Are you a SOLUTIONS THINKER or A PROBLEMS THINKER?
Think about the last time something went wrong. What did you do?
~Look for someone to blame or blame yourself
~focus on the problem
~Focus on what went wrong
Or Did you
~Accept quickly that something went wrong and move on
~Look for a soltion
~Focus on the solution
~Ask for help finding the soltion
Which looks most like your normal response.
Actually most people will answer the 1st response which is Problem thinking.
Whilst it is important to realise that something has gone wrong to continue focusing on it is pointless and destructive. Looking for and focusing on a solution is Solution Thinking and a much more positive and productive way of responding.
Give it a shot and see what a difference it makes.
Hi, I wanted to let you all know I have some free coaching sessions available right now.
Do you have something you want to change or achieve in your life? Maybe you'd like to...
=> start a business
=> find new love
=> get a new career (or a raise)
=> lose weight
=> get your child(ren) to behave better
=> or something else
No matter what you'd like to change or achieve, the secrets to success are the same...
#1: Get clear. As specifically as possible, decide what you want. The more clear you are on what you want to have in your life, the more likely you are to achieve it.
#2: Get perspective. Most people don't tell anyone what they want or what they are struggling with and because of that they don't get an outside Perspective.
#3: Get support. Very few people (if any) achieve anything great alone. Sports stars have teammates and coaches. Be willing to ask the people in your life to support you.
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=> Create a crystal clear vision for ‘ultimate success’ so you know exactly what you want, where you're headed, and what you need to do to make it happen.
=> Uncover hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your ability to make changes that last or that are slowing down your progress
=> Leave this session renewed, re-energized and inspired to finally achieve the change you seek- once and for all
If you’d like to take advantage of this very special, very limited, and totally FREE 30 minute “Rapid Change” coaching session, email me now at email@example.com and answer these questions…
1. What do you most want to change today?
2. Have you tried to change this before?
3. What have you attempted in the past that didn't work?
4. Why do you think it didn't work?
5. On a scale of 0-10, how important is it for you to achieve change today?
6. What other areas of your life do you want to change (if any)?
7. Full Name
8. Email Address
9. Phone #
10.Skype contact (if available)
11. Time Zone
Which are the areas you’d most like to work on…
__ Weight Loss
__ Relationship (get into one)
__ Relationship (improve the one I'm in)
__ Career Change
__ Parenting Challenges
Since I'm making this offer for the first time right now and I don’t know how intense the response will be, I can’t guarantee a coaching session
I’ll take as many people as I can and then start a waiting list. You can expect to get contacted to schedule your session within the next 3 business days.
If you don’t hear from me, it means we’ve received more requests than I can handle right now and if something opens up we’ll get in touch with you at a later time.
Again, to take advantage of this offer, simply email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and answer the questions listed above.
PS: The sooner you send us your answers, the more likely you are to get a session. Email your answers now email@example.com
I know you've heard me say this before but I'm going to say it again. The Law of attraction is working 24 hours a day, every single day. Are you practicing using the law of attraction to create the life you want?
For me, practicing the law of attarction is an ever evolving practice. Even as a law of attraction coach I still continue to move forward and learn new things. I still have areas of my life I want to improve. It's an ongoing project which never stops getting better and better. Sure I have days where things go off track but knowing how to get back on track quickly is all part of the process.
Do you need/want some extra support and mentoring?
All top athletes know the value of a sports coach. Now of course I'm not suggesting you all want to be top athlete's. What I'm suggesting is that you be the best you can be and live the life you want. That means something different to each and every one of us. My law of attraction coaching methods are designed with the understanding that we all have different dreams and desires and we all have different challenges.
When I ask people what they want, I often hear more money, to win the lottery, to be out of debt etc.
Sometimes they want to travel the world or go on an exotic holiday or start a business. When I ask what's stopping them they say "I don't have enough money!"
Do you know that we all carry limiting beliefs, some more than others. And what's most interesting is most of us have major limiting beliefs surrounding money. For a long time I convinced myself that I had released my limiting beliefs. I love money, I appreciate the things it gives me and pleasures it brings, I feel worthy of large amounts of money, I believe money is good etc. Although I was manifesting a resonable amount of money into my life it was still limited. Then I got a wake-up call. I was introduced to MONEY BEYOND BELIEF by Joe Vitale and Brad Yates. I realised I was still carrying around quite a few limiting beliefs regarding money, the biggest of which was this belief - Rich families are not happy. Wow, conscidering one of my core values is to have a happy family this turned out to be a whopper of a limiting belief.
I began using the Money Beyond Belief program which uses EFT (tapping, emotional freedom techniques) and immediately saw a difference. Money just started flowing into my life so easily. It was like the flood gates had been opened.
I'm going to ask the question again.
Do you have the amount of money you want?
If the answer is yes congratulations.
If the answer is no, not really, not yet... pleae do yourself a favour and at least read what MONEY BEYOND BELIEF has to offer.
I was recently invited to become a founder member of the new videojug pages. I have already set up two sites and have added 4 pages. I will be adding constantly to these sites over the next few weeks. I really like the idea and there is so much information.
I told someone the other day that I was a law of attraction Coach and a life skills coach. I explained that it is my job to help people get where they want to be in life and give them the motivation, support and skills needed to do so. He asked me for an example and I told him that I often work to help people achieve business success. From giving a mum the confidence to set up her own work at home business to helping an already established business become more successful.
A great deal of my work involes getting clear about what people actually want. Most people know what they don't want. When we know what it is people want we can set goals and work together to make sure you reach those goals.
Sports professionals have always turned to coaches to improve their performance and success. Hiring a professional coach to help you in business is just the same. Hiring a law of attraction coach has even more benefits. I will teach you about the power of the law of attraction and how to use this power within your business.
Email me today to see how law of attraction coaching can make you and your business a success.
Finally! At last I have worked out how to put Attractor Genie on my new computer. I've had this software for ages and absolutely love it but since I got my new computer at Eater I haven't had it on here. I've missed it so much.
I have to say it was me being dumb and not the software providers that prevented me from doing this sooner.
The software lets you do all sorts of things like create a vision board, attractor movie, suggests affirmations. There is an area for journaling and writing your wishes and also an area to write about the proof your wishes are manifesting. oh and so much more. I love it. I can even set (which I do) subliminal messages to flash up onto my computer as I work. Fab.
Anyway, enough of my excitement. It's almost time to collect JM from school. If you want to learn more about attractor genie Click Here!
This month hypnosisdownload.com are starting a program of charitable donations.They will be regularly donating proceeds from a specific download and this month it's the 'Gluten free diet' download:
They are donating all the proceeds from the Gluten free diet download to celiac research until June 31st. If you happen to know anyone who would benefit from the download, please pass the link on.
Thanks as always.
My one to one email coaching package will soon be getting a price increase. Well I do feel it deserves it.
I will soon be launching my 6 week work alone coaching E-Course. When I do, I will be putting the 6 session one to one email coaching course up from 20 Euros to 75 Euros. So if you book now you're saving yourself 55 Euros.
Let me tell you a little about the email coaching.
Once you have booked and paid for your coaching I will send you a getting to know you email. I'll tell you a bit about me and give you a brief introduction to the law of attraction. I'll also have some questions I need you to answer before we get started. We will also work out what you are wanting to get from our coaching sessions. You may simply want to learn more about the law of attraction, you may want to work on one area of your life such as Happy parenting, attracting clients for your business, attracting a relationship..., or you may want to use the sessions to generally improve all areas of your life.
My coaching sessions are designed to be used again and again. I'll be giving you the knowledge and the tools you need to immediately start using the law of attraction to attract the things you desire. The beauty of email coaching is that you will always have your sessions to go back to time and time again.
Once we are clear about where we are heading I will send you the first coaching session. You can take a long as you require to complete the session. I will send the 2nd session once the 1st session has been replied to and fully understood.
With this course you have unlimited email support, so if at any stage you are unclear about anything just email me and we can work it out together.
This really is personal one to one coaching. I am a reall person and I answer all emails personally.
I really do believe this is an exceptional course and I would love you to take advantage of this low price before it's too late.
Whenever you are having negative thoughts you are asking for things you do NOT want to come into your life. The Universe responds to your emotions/feelings.
I think all of us have negative thoughts, after all we are human and especially if you are new to the law of attraction. The secret is to make tiny changes to your thoughts. When you catch yourself having a negative thought/feeling down/sad about something your aim is to move from negative to positive as quickly as possible.
Tiny changes is the key. Here's why.
If you are feeling low about a lack of money. Say for example you have just received an electricity bill and you know it's going to take almost every penny you have to pay it.
You are now focusing on lack (negative) and by adding feeling to it you are in fact asking for more lack.
Make a change as quickly as you can.
THE BIG LEAP - It's highly unlikely that you are now going to start singing and dancing and feeling that you have an abundance of money.
A SMALL CHANGE - This is much more belivable and just as effective.
Okay, so I have a bill. It's an electricity bill. Well I really enjoyed the food I stored in my fridge and freezer and the meals I cooked in the oven. I loved watching the television and listening to music, I love that when my clothes are dirty I can pop then in the washing machine... It's so great that all of these things are possible because I have electricity running straight into my home.
Can you see how this small change in your thought process works. Yes you have a bill. Yes you are very lucky to live in a country where electicity runs straight to your home. How amazing is that?
Once you've moved from negative to positive just keep trying to climb the ladder one step at a time until life feels amazing.
On a recent trip to UK to visit my family I bought myself the Abraham Hicks Law of Attraction Card Deck. I am a huge fan of Abraham Hicks and had been wanting a card deck for some time, so when I saw them on the shelf in the local bookstore I had to buy them.
I have to admit I was slightly confused about how to use them. They came with no instructions or explaination. I tried shuffling and picking one out and a few other ideas. Eventually I decided to put them back into numerical order and focus on one card each day.
I have a few cards that really "Speak" to me that I have out on display all the time. Like the one that says "You can do, be and have anything..." I especially like reading this one first thing in the morning.
So I suppose the way you choose to use these cards is up to you. This is the way I like to use mine. It's funny, I often wake up with a question in my head and then turn the card over for the day and my question is answered by the message on the card. Hmm, the law of attraction works like that.
For more information about the cards and to purchase your own. Click on the image below.
My husband sent me this link in an email. He sent me it because he loves me an knew I would love it. I want to share it now with you.
A palindrome reads the same backwards as forward. This video reads the exact opposite backwards as forward. Not only does it read the opposite, the meaning is the exact opposite..
This is only a 1 minute, 44 second video and it is brilliant. Make sure you read as well as listen to the entire video...
This is a video that was submitted in a contest by a 20-year old. The contest was titled "u @ 50" . When they showed it, everyone in the room was awe-struck and broke into spontaneous applause. So simple and yet so brilliant.
I love it when the perfect people show up in my life. They have exactly the right answers/input into my life that I need.
I needed some help on a matter regarding my son and education. For over a year I had been searching for information and getting more and more confused. I eventually turned it over to the universe and hey presto the perfect person shows up in my life completely out of the blue. A complete stranger offering support and friendship.
When you find yourself struggling with an issue and going nowhere, turn it over to the universe. Tell the universe you want positive people to show up in your life to help and support you with your situation.
Introducing The Law of Attraction Into Your Life is the first Free SKYPE Workshop in a series of 5.
(Pick and choose the ones you want to take part in or book them all)
We will look at the 3 step law of attraction process and ways to intorduce the law of attraction into your life.
Hay House is well reknowned as being the leading publisher of self help/ inspirational material. Now you can listen from the company of your own home. You can listen free to some of the most respected people in the industry. There are also paid shows to choose from at a very low price when you conscider these people can command hundreds if not thousands per person for a live show.
My traditional telephone coaching package is for three hours (Used in time blocks of your choice)
When a client books telephone coaching with me they pay the call fees on top of the coaching fees.
Now with SKYPE Coaching available. Calls can be completely free.
If you haven't signed up for SKYPE yet. Head over to http://www.skype.com/
SKYPE is completely free to download and you can talk to other SKYPE users completely free of charge. You can also use it to make calls to ordinary landlines around the world much cheaper.
Most computers these days have built in microphones so no need to purchase anything. If you don't already have a microphone in your computer you can very cheaply buy a skype phone which plugs into your computer.
SKYPE COACHING CALLS are exactly the same as telephone coaching calls. When booking - Book the telephone package. It simply means no call charges.
I will be running a series of SKYPE WORKSHOPS very soon.
Workshops will be on the following:
Introducing the law of attraction into your life.
Law of attraction in business.
Law of attraction for relationships.
Law of attraction for big things and small things.
Parenting with the law of attraction.
ALL WORKSHOPS ARE COMPLETELY FREE
FREE TO CALL ON SKYPE
FREE TO TAKE PART
Dates and times have yet to be arranged.
I intend to have approx 5-8 people on each call. There will be plenty of opportunity to speak up and ask questions etc.
Calls will last approximately 1 hour.
WHAT TO DO IF YOU WANT TO TAKE PART
If you are interested in taking part in a SKYPE workshop please email me firstname.lastname@example.org or click on the SKYPE LINK on the top right of my blog.
Let me have your SKYPE name/number.
Tell me which workshops you are interested in taking part in.
Tell me where you are in the world and what time is best for you. (Please note that my time zone is GMT + 1.
I look forward to hearing from you.
For more information on ALL of my coaching packages and to learn more about the law of attraction please go to http://www.loaliving.com/
I love Easter, it's such a fresh, magical time of year. I'm heading off to visit family in England later today. Just Jack (my 8 year old son) and I going. Daddy is staying home enjoying some peace and quiet and probably the odd night out. That's good he deserves it. We all get to do exactly what we want to do.
I love our trips together. I make it a really special event for both of us. Mummy and Jack time together on the plane is a wonderful start to our trip and something we both really enjoy.
Our week will then be packed with family get togethers, shopping, cinema visits (Jack's got at least 4 films lined up) and generally having fun.
I'm heading off on my trip fully expecting to have a wonderful time. Oh and I asked the Universe for really great seats on the plane. I've found letting the Universe choose my seats works better for me than choosing them myself.
I'm expecting the Journey to be superb and on time so that I get to give my sister, who'll be waiting for us at the airport a great big hug.
I'll carry on expecting the best in everything we do.
Have fun this Easter and Expect really wonderful things.
Wow, I want to tell you all about the amazing teleclass I took part in last night LEARN HOW TO MAKE POWERFUL CONNECTIONS TO THE ANGELIC REALM with Lynn Ahearn. Because of the time difference I have been unable to take part in Lynns teleclass before, so when one came up that started at 10pm I jumped at the chance to take part. I was just about awake still then.
Lynn is a wonderul teacher and her calm yet uplifting voice added to the overall peacefullness of the call. She gave us an explaination of the Angels and told us how they can send us messages. She told us that the Angels love us unconditionally (whatever we do or say). That's a great feeling. She also explained that the Angels are always present with us and always ready for us to connect with them.
I was delighted when Lynn chose me to do the angel cards with her.
I took three deep breaths and thought of my question for the Angels. When I was ready I told Lynn to stop and she told me the card I had stopped on.
Among other things she told me my message was to clear my clutter and use Feng Shui.
I've actually had this message already this week from another source. After moving homes I still have a lot of physical clearing to do and I am very aware that at times my head is cluttered too.
I'll be working on this area and enjoying using Feng Shui in my new home.
To find out more about Lynn and the Angels you can go to:
Just a quickie to let you know that the Zero Worry Parenting course (using the law of attraction) is now up and running as of today. If you have kids in your life this is something I strongly recommend you take a look at. You can find out more at http://www.zeroworryparenting.com/go/?10019
Really, have you given this question much thought? I asked a friend earlier this week what she wanted after she'd spent 15 minutes complaining her life was rubbish (her words). "Oh," she replied. "I want to go on a world cruise with a tall, dark handsome man (she's already married to a handsome blonde man) and drink champagne all day long."
Hmm, this sounds a little like a fantasy that could turn into a nightmare.
After asking her a few more gentle questions. She realized what she wanted was a job that would fit around her family life. A great salary with less hours than she works now and a holiday in the sun with her lovely family.
Slightly different from the first wish list.
So today ask yourself "What do I REALLY want?"
Make sure what your asking/wishing for is what you really want.
I love Joe Vitale and have taken part in several of his groups, events etc. I have just read his brilliant ebook on how to attract a new car (or just about anything). It's a really good read with that special touch of Joe Vitale's humour.
Imagine that you had all the money you could ever want. You'd have great relationships and perfect health. Imagine you'd spend your life in peace and joy. If you practiced the Laws of Attraction, these things could come true for you. The first thing you must do to practice the Laws of Attraction is to embrace a feeling of gratitude. Be thankful for everything that you have. Focusing on the good things in your life will help you key in on positive feelings.
These positive feelings will translate into a positive energy, according to the Laws of Attraction. When you send out this kind of positive energy, you will see good things come back to you in return through the Laws of Attraction. You can concentrate on the positive things by holding some kind of talisman in your pocket, for example. This will help you remember to be thankful every time you touch it.
If you properly use the Law of Attraction, you will have what you want. It is and isn't easy. You only need to change the way you think and feel about things. If you can come to understand the Law of Attraction fully, you can make it work for you.
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Our surroundings affect how we feel. If our surroundings are chaotic and messy we feel chaotic and messy. If however our surroundings are calm and organized we in turn feel calm and organized.
Take a look around you right now, wherever you are. Are you happy with how everything looks and feels?
So what can we do if our homes are not benefiting us and helping us stay happy and positive.
I follow the start small rule in most areas of my life. That doesn't mean I don't have big goals. In fact my goals are huge, but starting small is, in my opinion the best way to get to where we're going. In this case creating a calm, happy, well organized home environment.
First pick an area of your home you want to tackle. For example the bedroom.
Next pick an area of the room - Your wardrobe.
Now concentrate on tidying ONLY your wardrobe, nothing else. When it's done you can start on another small area of the room until it's all done. This doesn't all need to be done today. If you clean and tidy 1 area of each room a day you'll still get there. When you try to do the whole house in one go you'll get fed up and demotivated. Sure it will look great to start with but can you keep it up?
Have a daily routine of things you need to do to maintain a clean and tidy house, such as tidy, wipe, sweep/hoover, wipe the bathroom etc.
Once you've worked your way around the house each day or week decide on a room to give extra care to.
For example this week I'm paying special attention to my bathroom. So it gets a thorough clean and I check all the cupboard and the blanket box etc.
Next week I'm working on my kitchen. I'll give the main area of the kitchen a thorough clean and then each day I will clean 2 or 3 cupboards etc.
Knowing I don't have to do the whole lot in one go makes it easier and I'm more likely to do it rather than put it off.
This is a great way to get kids to keep their own bedrooms tidy too. In our home we have a genral rule that toys are put away at the end of the day and one lot goes away before new toys are brought out. It doesn't always work but mostly it does. Then I will ask Jack to tidy his bookshelve or tidy under his bed or sort his top drawer out. I find saying "Jack can you please go and tidy your top drawer?" works much better than "Go and tidy your room."
It's a specif area and it only takes a few minutes. Easy.
Never be afriad to get kids involved in housework. Young kids love it and it gives all kids and teens a sense of belonging and being part of the home. Remember START SMALL.
In my kitchen we have a wipe clean board. On it I have this message.
TREAT OUR HOME AND ALL OF THE PEOPLE IN IT WITH LOVE AND RESPECT
Next time you need to do household chores think of this message. You're not only cleaning, you're putting love into your home.
The people you mix with matters. If you want to feel positive and happy and only mix with people who complain about how miserable their lives are you're already climbing a very steep hill to success. If however you choose to mix with people who are happy and positive it will rub off on you and you're own journey to happiness is an easy ride. I'm not suggesting you go out and ditch your family and friends. I'm just saying if they are not happy and positive limit the time you spend with them. When you are with these types of people don't allow yourself to get draw into the doom and gloom conversations. Talk about something positive and happy. If they complain ask "so what do you want?"
As Michael Lossier says "MIND YOUR OWN VIBRATIONS"
Simply put this means you have no control over anothers feelings, thoughts, beliefs etc, your first priority is to ALWAYS make sure you are feeling good. Keep your own vibrations (mood, feelings) high.
Actively search out people you want to be like. If you want to be as successful as your boss, invite him for dinner and tell him you'd like to talk to him/her about how he/she became so successful. You'd be suprised how little this happens and how much people who are successful enjoy sharing their knowledge.
Here are some really powerful affirmations you can use.
I only attract positive conversations
I only attract positive and happy people
I only attract people who support and love me
I only attract people who want the best for me and help me acheive success
Imagine what it would feel like to have zero worry as a parent. Well with The Zero Worry Parenting Course that's exactly what you'll get. This exciting course is due to launch very soon. I have been given access to a free report which I am now able to share with you all. It's jam packed with really great ideas and advice to get you moving in the right direction.
I just got an email from my friends at Hypnosisdownloads.com. They have added some more new downloads to their already massive collection. If you've not tkaen a look at this site yet, I really do think it's well worth a look. This is a calming and relaxing method of eliminating negative beliefs by instilling positive messages through hypnosis.
This morning after dropping Jack off at school I was listening to the radio in my car when Heal the World by Michael Jackson came on. Now I have to admit I have never been a huge Michael Jackson fan but this particular song always hits home with me.
Heal The World
Make It a Better Place
For You and For Me
And The Entire Human Race.
What words could be better? Isn't this what we all want?
I then started thinking about some of the things I have recently seen on the News. Imagine if we all held the intention every single time we watched the News to HEAL THE WORLD, MAKE IT A BETTER PLACE FOR ME AND FOR YOU AND THE ENTIRE HUMAN RACE.
We are constantly bombarded with BAD NEWS. We are told our world if full of weirdo's wanting to attack us or our children, disasters are getting more and more frequent and the whole world seems to be fighting. What do we have to be happy about?
Plenty, it's just often not newswothy in the eyes of those who produce these news shows.
I try not to watch the news very often but my husband likes to. So when the news is on and I see something I don't like I say "This is not my truth" - To let the universe know this particular scenario is not for me.
I also ask to see the things I want.
For example, when the Eathquale struck Haiti, I asked to see smiling children and people being rescued. I wanted to hear stories of survival and there were many. I ask you too, to focus on the good that can come out of a situation. This does not mean I do not acknowledge what has happened and that many many people lost their lives, it simply means we can't change that and focusing on that will in no way help. Focusing on survivors and aid getting through with ease is powerful.
So I repeat from now on Every time you watch the news hold the intention to heal the world, make it a better place. Fill your heart with love and let it overflow into everything you do.
I'm a huge fan of using EFT and as Gary Craig says "Use it on everything". For those of you who are yet to learn this easy an effective tapping technique it's tapping on cerain points mainly around the head and hands.
Personally I use it on everything I have an issue with. I also love to use it with my 8 year old son.
Here are a few examples of how I personally have used EFT.
To clear a coldsore in superfast time
To clear a headache
To easy stomache pains
To calm myself and others in stressful situations
To clear negative beliefs from my past.
Helping my son get to sleep
Helping my son focus on his schoolwork
Gary Craig is the Founder of EFT. His website is packed with free information. You can also download a free manual which actually teaches you how to use EFT. This is well worth a visit. For something this good I would really expect to pay. The free manual teaches you all you need to know to get you started. If you want to take the training further you can but most paople really don't need to.
Gary has recently retired from his work and I know that supplies are running low on the training DVDS. So if you are interested in learning more or taking EFT to the next level head over to http://www.emofree.com/
I was delighted to be asked to write for Commitment Relationships.com
You can read my article 'Using the law of attraction to attract your ideal partner'
This is a great site and I'd love you to take a look and comment on my post.
I'm really excited to share this news with you. I am a great fan of using the law of attraction as a parenting tool. I work personally with parents on a one to one basis and in workshops teaching how to use the law of attraction as a parenting tool and how parents can teach their own children how to use the law of attraction.
Today I want to tell you about a program that is about to be launched - Zero Worry Parenting Course. I'm already signed up, the people behind this course have years and years of experience behind them and they are such amazing people. I already recommend products by them. They are people I have been involved with for many years.
To sign up ready for the launch (I would strongly recommend you sign up now to make sure you get on board with this great course) please go to http://tinyurl.com/ykkhyob
You'll find more information about the launch.
I also just found out that Bob Doyle - One of the speakers on the hit movie THE SECRET has endorsed the course. I'm so happy he's on board.
Well let me know if you sign up and have a great time learning Zero Worry Parenting.
Using the Law of Attraction as a parenting tool is easy. It does take practice but there really is no great mystery. The Law of Attraction is always working. Making it work the way we want just takes a little practice. Remember the golden rule – ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT. It’s no good telling your kids to stop this and stop that. Tell them what you want. Believe it or not most (if not all) children want to make their parents happy and please them. I often hear remarks such as “He’s deliberately going out of his way to make me angry!” My reply to this is “Have you asked him for what you want?” I often get a puzzled look at this point. “Ask him for what I want??? Huh, I never thought of that.”
Really, give it a go ASK YOUR CHILD FOR WHAT YOU WANT.
Here’s a reality note. It won’t happen overnight. Changes take time. But the changes need to come from you in order for your child to change. You’ll forget that you’re supposed to ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT instead of reprimanding for what you don’t want. I still do now. It’s fine, just stop yourself and know that there is a better way and go ahead and change what you’ve said to a positive ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT statement.
As a child I was constantly told "Money doesn't grow on tree's you know!"
As an adult I can't tell you how many times I've heard "You need to work hard to get anywhere in life."
Well as far as I am aware Money does not grow on trees. However I have no proof that you have to work hard to get anywhere in life or indeed that working hard ensures you do indeed make very much money at all.
In fact if you look for proof, there are hundreds of people in every village around the world who work extremely hard to just get by.
We've all been given messages about money throughout our lives but are those messages actually true. In Richard Carlson's book "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff About Money" he tells us to work on "knowing" instead of "believing".
If you've been told you need to work 9-5 in a job you hate for the rest of your working life so that when you retire you'll be able to afford to live. Go and do some research. Do you KNOW this is true? Do you even believe this is true?
My advice is to make sure your living today.
If like most people you feel you have limiting beliefs regarding money. Or you simply want more.
Don't Sweat The Small Stuff About Money is a brilliant book to read.
It's the type of book you can pick up and read a couple of pages at a time.
I know I'm going over old ground here but I really want to make sure you've got the message. You need to be making your number 1 priority feeling good. In fact feeling great.
Look around you. What can you see right now to be grateful for?
Who are you grateful for in your life?
Appreciate the beautiful world around you. YES, when you open your eyes you'll see it really is a beautiful world we live in. And do you know what? When we look, the world is full of really beautiful people. Oh, I'm not talking about the supermodel type of beauty. I'm talking about real beauty. A mother caring for her child, a husband smiling at the wife he adores, the grandmother watching her grandchildren through eyes of wisdom, the elderly man who works in his garden, the ducks swimming on the pond, the flowers gently blowing in the breeze, the birds singing... the list is endless, all you need to do is open your eyes and look.
In the hit movie the secret Jack Canfield says "If it doesn't make you happy, don't do it." or something very similar to that. Anyway he's a smart guy and I try hard to follow this advice every day.
If you have things in your life you have to do but don't really enjoy doing, find a way to make them fun. I hate hoovering. It's just something I hate doing. Now with a great big black dog and a messy child I need to hoover. So I get the dreaded hoover out and I say "Hey big bad hoover. Who's going to shout loudest today." And as the hoover (it's pretty old) roars away I shout out, or sing (there's not a lot of difference for me) my affirmations. I dance around as much as is humanly possible with the hoover and I HAVE FUN!
My neighbours think I'm the crazy lady but I HAVE FUN.
When we feel good, when we feel great, when we have FUN the Universe will give us more and more to feel good/great about.
Decide today to make feeling good your number one priority.
Here's a picture of my son Jack. Everyday I am thankful for him and the person he is.
He makes me very happy. Here he is making chocolate cakes, which makes us both happy.
Wow, I've spent the morning working on Attractor Genie. I bought the software for myself with some of my Christmas money. I think it will take me until next Christmas to get through all the stuff available on here. It's amazing. As a law of attraction coach I'm constantly looking for new ideas to help focus my attention to manifest my ideal life. I do pretty well by myself but new ideas are always welcome.
I have to say I can't get enough of this. I was sat at the computer putting in more focused information and my husband said "Are you doing the Attractor Genie thing again?" I told him I was and then noticed he was grinning at me. "What are you grinning at?" I asked him a little suspiciously. "I'm grinning at you grinning" he said. He went on to tell me I'd been sat at the computer grinning like a cheshire cat for the best part on an hour. Hmm, I guest that's got to be a good thing. Feeling happy is the most powerful way to attract your desires to you, right? Well I was feeling very happy an still am.
As someone who spends so much time on the computer, this software is a gift. I love it so much. I'm all excited just writing about it.
So far I've created several projects and added my wishes. Created affirmations to go with each project via the fab affirmation generator and I'm now working on my vision boards. Oh and as I work on any area of Attractor Genie I can set my affirmations to be flashed briefly in front of me. I hardly notice them but the messages are being lodged in my subconcious mind. I haven't evn started on the journal yet. And every time I go on it I find something new. Anyway, I'm going back to continue with my vision board whilst I've got half an hour spare. Take a look at Attractor Genie for yourself Click Here!
Oh wow, just by accident I've just worked out that if I leave the attractor genie screen up as I work on other things ie. this blog my subliminal messages (my affirmations) flash up all the time. That's amazing. I'm very impressed.
Okay I'm going to stop now. Go and check it out for yourself. Click Here!
I love listening to Ester (Abraham). I wanted to share this particular video with you today.
Watch it several times (you'll almost certainly here more each time you listen). This message has the power to change your life.
Hi Everyone, I can't believe I haven't wished you a happy New Year yet. I've been so busy since returninmg from our Chistmas break in America. Well here goes.
I Wish You All A Very Happy, Healthy And Prosperous New Year.
January is traditionally the time when we take stock of our lives and make plans for the year ahead.
Here's a tip: If you do things the same as last year you'll get the same as you got last year. If you want to make changes you need to do thing differently.
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Why not make 2010 the year you make some positive changes to your life.
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I want to wish you all a wonderful, happy, healthy and prosperous New Year. Traditionally this is a time when people make resolutions for the year ahead. Most of those resolutions get forgotten and broken before the end of the month. And life goes on as normal. I challenge you to make 2010 the year of change. The year you take control of you life.
Through my combined Life Coaching Skills and Law of Attraction training I am able to help you achieve specific goals, work on specific areas of your life or your whole life. Coaching sessions are available via email worldwide and via telephone within Europe. The coaching sessions I provide are expected to be short term as I always expect results quickly.
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