The Secret - Part 3

Many people watch the bestselling film The Secret and it is an amazing film.  They start using the ideas in their own life.  They get very excited about what they are going to attract and... NOTHING!

Ooops, It must be a lie. 
It doesn't work.
This law of attraction stuff is a load of rubbish

I've heard all of the above statements and many more.

Well the law of attraction does work. 

And you can create the things you want in your life.

However almost all of us have lots of negative beliefs.  In order for the law of attraction (universe) to give you what you want you have to get rid of those negative beliefs.

You have to believe that what you want is on its way and trust the universe.

If you imagine a pathway and the thing you want is at one end of the pathway and you are at the other,  every negative belief or emotion you have is blocking the path to you. 

So let's say you're trying to attract a brand new sports car.  Wow, how exciting is that?

You enjoy the feeling of pretending you already have it and you are very clear about what sort of car you want but in the back of your mind is doubt.

I'll never get a car like that.
Yeah right, where will I ever get the money from to have a car like that.
If I was driving a car like that my friends would all be trying to get money out of me.
Guys like me don't get cars like that.

Wow!  This guys got some serious blocks. 

So what can he do to get rid of them.

He could use several techniques, such as EFT, hypnosis, visualizations, affirmations etc

You basically need to reprogram you mind in order to remove negative blocks and emotions.

It might sound hard work but it's actually not that hard to do.

The other thing to know is that we don't need to know HOW.

If you're anything like me you don't know exactly how a car works but it does.

It's the same for the law of attraction (universe) we really don't need to know how the universe will get what we want to us we just need to believe it will.

So to sum it all up we need to follow the three essential steps

1- ASK
2-RAISE YOU VIBRATIONS (FEEL GOOD)
3-ALLOW

That's your 3 steps to law of attraction success.

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The Secret - Part 2

In the bestselling film The Secret there's a guy who is trying to attract a new car.  So he pretends he's already got the car and he's enjoying driving it.  He's imagining the noise of the car, the feel of the car.  He's totally getting the feeling of already having the car.

Now I'm not suggesting that we all sit in our living rooms and pretend we're driving our new car (although it's a great idea).  But there's a hidden secret here.  Can you spot it?
It's the FEELING.  When I talk about raising our vibrations, I'm really talking about our feelings.  If you ask the universe for a new car, a new house, a loving partner... and don't have the feeling behind that desire you won't get it.

Take a minute to imagine this scenario.  James is on his way to an important meeting.  He's stuck in traffic and he's only got ten minutes to get to the meeting on time.  James sits in his car and watches the clock, tapping nervously on the wheel.  James opens his window and leans out to see what the problem is.  Cars in front hit the horns in their cars and James does too. 

Have you got this image in your mind?  If you have you're probably not feeling to great.  So is there feeling in this scenario?

You bet there is.  James is anxious, frustrated, angry...  These are negative, horrible feelings, but they sure are feelings.  And the universe loves feelings.  The universe picks up on James feelings and sends out more of those same feeling for James to experience. 

Hmm, I have a good idea James day is not going to go well.

So if you're trying to attract a new partner into your life for example, you need to add the feeling.  How will you feel when you have your ideal partner to share your life with?  What will you do?  Look out for couples who are obviously in love and enjoying each other's company.  Take a moment to recognise them and imagine yourself in the same situation with your ideal partner.  You need to get the feeling.

A good friend of mine complained to me that she was fed up being single and wanted a man to share her life with.  I got her to get clear about the type of man she wanted to share her life with, next I asked her what she would like to do with her ideal partner.  She told me she'd like to have romantic candle lit dinners at home and then snuggle up on the sofa with a glass of wine and watch films.  She'd done all the partying and wanted a man she could just be at home with. 

After we'd talked more about what she wanted, my friend went home and cooked a beautiful meal.  She set the table and placed red rose petals and candles on the table.  She put on a beautiful dress and her best perfume.  She set the table for two people and whilst she enjoyed her meal she imagined chatting to her ideal partner.  After the meal she moved to her lounge and put a film on that was suitable for her and her ideal partner.  Instead of spreading out the full length of the sofa my friend left a space for her partner and watched the film with a nice glass of wine.  When she went to bed, she snuggled towards the middle but no further, she left room for her ideal partner.  As she fell asleep my friend gave thanks for her wonderful evening.

My friend took my advice seriously and continued to live her life as is she already had her ideal man sharing her life. 

Just over a month later my friend telephoned me and told me she'd had a couple of dates which hadn't worked out since we had last met.  She told me they were wonderful men but not her ideal man.  She then told me she'd been dating a man for two weeks and he was wonderful.  She told me she thought she'd found her ideal man.

I'm pleased to say she's still with her ideal man and very, very happy. 

So what happened?

She got really clear about what she wanted and then added the feeling.  She raised her vibrations and the universe delivered what she asked for.

In part 3, I'll be looking at allowing.  This is usually the hard part for most people. 
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The Secret -Part 1

The bestselling book/movie 'The Secret' has made millions of people around the world aware of the law of attraction. Some law of attraction coaches I know have concerns about it being misleading. I don't agree. Personally I believe The Secret is the best thing that has ever happened with regards to the law of attraction. Why? Because it's a taster to what is possible. I've had people come to me after watching this movie so fired up and wanting to know more about how to use the law of attraction in their own lives. They have gone on to create the life they want. You see as brilliant as the secret is, it's simply an introduction, a starting ground.

Today I'm going to talk to you about what words we use and how to ask.

So is it possible to attract what you want just by asking?

You bet it is.

However, for most people there is more to it. You see as adult we have had all sorts of different messages enter our brain over the years. Some are positive, some are negative.

Here's an example of somethings my own parents have said to me.

"We haven't got enough money"
"Eat up everything on your plate, there are children starving in Africa"
"Money doesn't make you happy."

Now I'd always thought of my parents as positive people. After all they always encouraged me and supported me in my choices. Yet, without knowing it they were programming my mind.

Take a look at this:

What is said
We haven't got enough money

What the universe hears
Not enough money (lack of money)

What the universe gives you more of
More lack of money


Now let's try this instead

What is said
There is an abundance of money in the world. Let's work out how we can get more money.

What the universe hears
Abundance of money, more money

What the universe gives you more of
More money, more abundance

I know which one I choose. Which one will you choose?

These simple words make a massive difference to your life.

As I've said before the law of attraction is amazing and wonderful but not too smart. it can't tell if what we say or think about is good for us or not. It doesn't know if more money or lack of money will make us happy. It simply gives us what we ask for. So from now on make sure you're using the right words.

In part 2 we will be looking into beliefs.

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The Three Steps to Using The Law of Attraction

(This is a beautiful photo. Looking at it raises my vibrations)

When deliberately using The Law Of Attraction we must follow three essential steps.

ASK

RAISE YOUR VIBRATIONS

ALLOW

Each step is vital.

Let's take a look at each step individually.

ASK

We need to ask for what we want. But before we can do this we need to get really clear about what it is we want. Most people go through life knowing (and telling the world) what they don't want. When you know what you don't want ask yourself this question. So, what do I want?

Once you know what you want be as specific as possible and ask. So asking is really broken down into 3 parts.

• Get clear about what you want


• Be specific


• Ask

RAISE YOUR VIBRATIONS (VIBES)

How do we raise our vibes? We know when we have good (positive) vibes because we feel good. The better we feel about something the more positive our vibrations. So we need to work on feeling great.

A great way to do this is to ask yourself 'What's going right in my life?' Make a list and keep adding to it.

Make time to do things that you enjoy. Even if it's just to stop and smell a flower.

Get into the habit of appreciation. Each and every time something good happens, take a moment to just appreciate it.

ALLOW

Allowing is probably the most difficult step for people to do. It's the part that is often missed out. Therefore whatever it is you've been trying to manifest never appears.

We need to clear the pathway for the law of attraction to bring you all you desire. This is usually where things start to get tricky. Most people (me included) have negative blocks in the way. What we need to do is clear those negative blocks/feelings/beliefs.

One way that I use to clear negative blocks is EFT (emotional freedom techniques). Some of you may know this as the tapping technique. It works by focusing on your negative belief and tapping on meridian points around the body. I use EFT a lot with my clients and it can be done over the telephone or I can even do this with you via email.

Other methods I love to use are hypnosis, affirmations, meditation.

This is a brief outline of the three steps to using the law of attraction. As I've said before, the law of attraction works 24/7 it never stops. The secret is knowing how to use it to create the things in life that you want.

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ASK
RAISE YOUR VIBRATIONS
ALLOW

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