We're Talking About Good Vibrations.

What are vibrations?  We commonly refer to vibrations as good and bad VIBES.

So, how do we know if we have good or bad vibes?

Well first let me tell you that it is only possible to have 2 types of VIBES

Positive (good)

Negative (bad)

The way to tell is how we feel. 

If you're feeling good, great, wonderful... this is a positive (good) vibration (vibe).

If your feeling down, grumpy, bad... this is a negative (bad) vibration (vibe).

When we have positive vibrations the law of attraction has a clearer path to follow to bring you the things you want in your life.

Now here's the thing, when you have negative vibes the law of attraction is still at work.  You will attract more negativity into your life. 

Did you get that?  I'm going to go over it again just to be absolutely clear.

POSITIVE VIBES = The Universe gives you more to be positive about.

NEGATIVE VIBES = The Universe gives you more to be negative about.

If you want good things in your life, it's up to you to do everything in your power to raise your vibrations higher and higher.  All you need to do is check in with yourself and ask "Do I feel good?" 

Michael Losier who was one of my wonderful teachers of the law of attraction at The Law of Attraction Training Center say "Mind your own vibrations".

He's a smart guy and we should all do as he says. 

Here are some words I like touse to raise my vibrations -

Beautiful, wonderful, amazing, nice, happy, fun, loving, abundant, prosperous, brilliant, good, great,generous, lucky, kind, fabulous...

Here's something you can add to those words to keep your vibrations rocketing.

I AM ...

I AM...

I AM...

The Secret - Part 2

In the bestselling film The Secret there's a guy who is trying to attract a new car.  So he pretends he's already got the car and he's enjoying driving it.  He's imagining the noise of the car, the feel of the car.  He's totally getting the feeling of already having the car.

Now I'm not suggesting that we all sit in our living rooms and pretend we're driving our new car (although it's a great idea).  But there's a hidden secret here.  Can you spot it?
It's the FEELING.  When I talk about raising our vibrations, I'm really talking about our feelings.  If you ask the universe for a new car, a new house, a loving partner... and don't have the feeling behind that desire you won't get it.

Take a minute to imagine this scenario.  James is on his way to an important meeting.  He's stuck in traffic and he's only got ten minutes to get to the meeting on time.  James sits in his car and watches the clock, tapping nervously on the wheel.  James opens his window and leans out to see what the problem is.  Cars in front hit the horns in their cars and James does too. 

Have you got this image in your mind?  If you have you're probably not feeling to great.  So is there feeling in this scenario?

You bet there is.  James is anxious, frustrated, angry...  These are negative, horrible feelings, but they sure are feelings.  And the universe loves feelings.  The universe picks up on James feelings and sends out more of those same feeling for James to experience. 

Hmm, I have a good idea James day is not going to go well.

So if you're trying to attract a new partner into your life for example, you need to add the feeling.  How will you feel when you have your ideal partner to share your life with?  What will you do?  Look out for couples who are obviously in love and enjoying each other's company.  Take a moment to recognise them and imagine yourself in the same situation with your ideal partner.  You need to get the feeling.

A good friend of mine complained to me that she was fed up being single and wanted a man to share her life with.  I got her to get clear about the type of man she wanted to share her life with, next I asked her what she would like to do with her ideal partner.  She told me she'd like to have romantic candle lit dinners at home and then snuggle up on the sofa with a glass of wine and watch films.  She'd done all the partying and wanted a man she could just be at home with. 

After we'd talked more about what she wanted, my friend went home and cooked a beautiful meal.  She set the table and placed red rose petals and candles on the table.  She put on a beautiful dress and her best perfume.  She set the table for two people and whilst she enjoyed her meal she imagined chatting to her ideal partner.  After the meal she moved to her lounge and put a film on that was suitable for her and her ideal partner.  Instead of spreading out the full length of the sofa my friend left a space for her partner and watched the film with a nice glass of wine.  When she went to bed, she snuggled towards the middle but no further, she left room for her ideal partner.  As she fell asleep my friend gave thanks for her wonderful evening.

My friend took my advice seriously and continued to live her life as is she already had her ideal man sharing her life. 

Just over a month later my friend telephoned me and told me she'd had a couple of dates which hadn't worked out since we had last met.  She told me they were wonderful men but not her ideal man.  She then told me she'd been dating a man for two weeks and he was wonderful.  She told me she thought she'd found her ideal man.

I'm pleased to say she's still with her ideal man and very, very happy. 

So what happened?

She got really clear about what she wanted and then added the feeling.  She raised her vibrations and the universe delivered what she asked for.

In part 3, I'll be looking at allowing.  This is usually the hard part for most people. 
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The Three Steps to Using The Law of Attraction

(This is a beautiful photo. Looking at it raises my vibrations)

When deliberately using The Law Of Attraction we must follow three essential steps.

ASK

RAISE YOUR VIBRATIONS

ALLOW

Each step is vital.

Let's take a look at each step individually.

ASK

We need to ask for what we want. But before we can do this we need to get really clear about what it is we want. Most people go through life knowing (and telling the world) what they don't want. When you know what you don't want ask yourself this question. So, what do I want?

Once you know what you want be as specific as possible and ask. So asking is really broken down into 3 parts.

• Get clear about what you want


• Be specific


• Ask

RAISE YOUR VIBRATIONS (VIBES)

How do we raise our vibes? We know when we have good (positive) vibes because we feel good. The better we feel about something the more positive our vibrations. So we need to work on feeling great.

A great way to do this is to ask yourself 'What's going right in my life?' Make a list and keep adding to it.

Make time to do things that you enjoy. Even if it's just to stop and smell a flower.

Get into the habit of appreciation. Each and every time something good happens, take a moment to just appreciate it.

ALLOW

Allowing is probably the most difficult step for people to do. It's the part that is often missed out. Therefore whatever it is you've been trying to manifest never appears.

We need to clear the pathway for the law of attraction to bring you all you desire. This is usually where things start to get tricky. Most people (me included) have negative blocks in the way. What we need to do is clear those negative blocks/feelings/beliefs.

One way that I use to clear negative blocks is EFT (emotional freedom techniques). Some of you may know this as the tapping technique. It works by focusing on your negative belief and tapping on meridian points around the body. I use EFT a lot with my clients and it can be done over the telephone or I can even do this with you via email.

Other methods I love to use are hypnosis, affirmations, meditation.

This is a brief outline of the three steps to using the law of attraction. As I've said before, the law of attraction works 24/7 it never stops. The secret is knowing how to use it to create the things in life that you want.

Good Vibes

The Law of Attraction is all about VIBES.

You might have heard someone saying "Hey, I'm getting good vibes from this person, they make me feel reaaly good."

or maybe,

"Oh no, this place has bad vibes, I don't want to stay here."

Vibes is a short word for vibrations.

So how do we know if we have good (positive) vibes, or bad (negative) vibes?

Think about how you feel. If you feel good, you've got positive vibes, If you're not happy with how you're feeling, you've got negative vibes.

Law of attraction works for us when we have positive vibes.

I'll let you into a secret.

You can only have 1 type of vibration (vibe) at a time.

POSITIVE or NEGATIVE.

To allow the law of attraction to work for you, you must work on raising your vibrations.

Have fun with this, feel free to share your experiences and you are welcome to contact me for more information.

Bye for now,

Wendy