The people you mix with matters. If you want to feel positive and happy and only mix with people who complain about how miserable their lives are you're already climbing a very steep hill to success. If however you choose to mix with people who are happy and positive it will rub off on you and you're own journey to happiness is an easy ride. I'm not suggesting you go out and ditch your family and friends. I'm just saying if they are not happy and positive limit the time you spend with them. When you are with these types of people don't allow yourself to get draw into the doom and gloom conversations. Talk about something positive and happy. If they complain ask "so what do you want?"
As Michael Lossier says "MIND YOUR OWN VIBRATIONS"
Simply put this means you have no control over anothers feelings, thoughts, beliefs etc, your first priority is to ALWAYS make sure you are feeling good. Keep your own vibrations (mood, feelings) high.
Actively search out people you want to be like. If you want to be as successful as your boss, invite him for dinner and tell him you'd like to talk to him/her about how he/she became so successful. You'd be suprised how little this happens and how much people who are successful enjoy sharing their knowledge.
Here are some really powerful affirmations you can use.
I only attract positive conversations
I only attract positive and happy people
I only attract people who support and love me
I only attract people who want the best for me and help me acheive success
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This is a really fascinating question. I don't really know is the answer. Some of the people I mix with online have been good friends, loyal and supportive. Others I find hard to connect with. I don't have many friends on a personal level, bit of a loner.
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Do you want to attract more friends? Remember to ask for what you want. Before you go to sleep at night tell the universe you want to attract new, happy and positive friends. Make a list of all the things you want in a friend. Loyalty, trust, an outgoing personality, someone who makes you laugh, someone who pops around for coffee for no reason other than they love you, etc, whatever you want.
ReplyDeleteI personally did this as I was lonely living on a small island and not wanting to mix with the ‘talk behind your back group’. I now have a great set of friends.
Wendy x
What a great idea about making a list of things. I work from home and often don't want people to just drop by, I've always been a very much "phone first" girl and sometimes I wonder if this puts people off. Where I live it's very quiet, small community of mostly farmers who work 25 hours a day so I guess that's one of the reasons why I don't have many friends. Plus I'm very unsociable. Also, I don't like clicky groups, which I've come across lately online and it really does put me off joining in.
ReplyDeleteThank you for replying to my comment, and thanks for the advice.
CJ xx
You're welcome. I love knowing my posts are helping. Thank you for taking the time to let me know.
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Wendy,
ReplyDeleteWhat do we do with family members who are not swimming in our higher level of consciousness?
Stephanie
Umm, dealing with family members who are not on or even near our own vibrational level is something I have had problems with myself.
ReplyDeleteThese are usually people we love very dearly and want to have in our lives, yet we feel drained when we are with them. Often these are also the same people who will not be open to ideas about the law of attraction, so sharing your law of attraction knowledge with these people would be wasted and could even cause more problems.
The first thing we need to do is accept these people for who they are. They're doing the best they can with the knowledge they have. I'm not particularly a religious person but I often say "Father forgive them, they know not what they do." and this is true. Most people have no concept that what they say and think has any affect on their lives.
Second - Mind your own vibrations. Keep your own vibrations as high as possible. When you know you are going to be with family members who are not on your vibrational level, ask the Universe for only positive conversations. Expect only positive conversations and initiate the conversations, talk about good things that are happening. And remember the powerful "So, what do you want?" question for if they do complain. You don't need to mention the law of attraction at all. Tell them why you love them.
Give them positive affirmations within your general conversation.
Third - Love them unconditionally.
Another phrase I use around these people is "That's not my truth."
This is especially useful when people are talking about recession and such like. Listen but remind yourself it's not your truth, not your reality and back that up with going on a gratitude marathon. Mentally run through everything you are grateful for in you life.
You could also make a list of all the things you love/like about this person and whenever you are with them you can concentrate on these points.
I hope this helps.
My love and support always
Wendy xx
I am surrounded with both pessimistic and optimistic people. During times that I have a talk with pessimistic people, I tend to have more complains and dissatisfaction of what I have. So, I'd rather chose to be influenced with those optimistic people as I gain positive energy from them, thus success is more attainable.
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